Misjudgments

I've always wondered, where do people get off on talking about another persons life? What's the point in saying hurtful things about someone else? Is it because they harvest a secret jealousy or envy towards that person? I have my fair share of shit talkers & 90% of the time, I've learned to brush it off & ignore it. But there comes a time where one gets fed up. Enough w| the BULLSHIT! I don't see why my life concerns anyone but myself. A lot of people judge me & try to label me when they know nothing about me. Yes, I might be a very friendly & open minded person. But does that make me a bad girl? Does it make me promiscuous? Not at all. I'm 20 years old, I know right from wrong. I know what to do & what to avoid. Yet, for some odd reason people feel the need to talk about my life. I mean I understand it is interesting & some might wanna live the way I do. But there should be no reason for someone to claim they know who I am if in reality, they know NOTHING about me. The point I'm trying to get across is basic. Don't judge a book by its cover & you can't always go by what others speak about people. If life was based on assumptions & ideas, this would be 1 fucked up world. Learn to get to know someone before you can have something to say about them.